Friday, April 1, 2016

Arriving on Time

Punctuality the Manner we Forgot About!


I don't know when the phrase "fashionably late" became popular and regularly practiced, but it has taken off with abandon. In fact, if you're prone to promptness like me, chances are you'll be the only person at any given party for at least a half-hour after the indicated start time. That's because arriving extremely late has become the standard. The only time a late arrival may be acceptable is when it's a cultural norm among your family, friends or social group. 

This seemed a fitting item to follow the previous: in the olden days it was rude to arrive late. There was no such thing as being “fashionably late”. Lateness was rudeness – always. In most houses, if you were invited to dinner and turned up 15 minutes late, you would end up eating alone in the kitchen surrounded by the household staff, only to be allowed to join the party when the polite guests (who arrived on time) had finished and were retiring for the evening’s entertainment.

This is the kind of article that stresses the importance of some manners or etiquette that should never be taken for granted no matter your age, or your station in life. 

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